My second unchurched friend interview was with Bryan, director of an Alzheimer's Unit, in one of the local nursing homes.
Questions:
1) What do you think is the greatest need in your area?
A: Keeping my family physically safe.
2)Are you actively attending any church?
A: No. Bryan also stated that he was raised catholic and asked, "I'm going to hell, aren't I?"
3) What are a few issues or topics that impact/interest you?
A: Alzheimer's: learning and keeping up to date on research, interventions, and behavior; the economy and financial issues; local issues in Hanover, since that's where I live: laws, what they want to build or take away; the school system: how they run it, what they do; if the Steelers will beat the Ravens this weekend (pre-Super Bowl interview).
4) Why do you think most people don't attend church?
A: Laziness (I can partly be put in that area). In these times with husband and wife having to work and bust their butts to make ends meet, they want to just have time to relax. People's outlooks have changed. There's less of an emphasis on God, religion, and going to church because of other things going on. Little kids cause a ruckus and don't know how to be quiet. Not everybody that goes to church is going to heaven.
5) If you were to look for a church to attend, what kind of things would you look for?
A: A pastor or preacher who is enthusiastic, captivating. A nice physical environment- not too cold or too hot. A kid's program where they actually do stuff with the kids.
6) What advice can you give to pastors who really want to be helpful to people?
A: Listen to the person who wants to talk to them- give them their full attention; for them to give a few different suggestions to help them solve their problems. If a family has an issue that is embarrassing, to have the pastor visit the home to counsel them.
I appreciated Bryan's answers. He was willing to open up a little more and put some thought into what he said.
In response to his answers, thoughts, and concerns: I believe some of his concerns (ie, his famiy's safety, whether or not he was going to hell because he didn't attend church, and the issues/topics that make an impact on him) could be alleviated by seeking after God and His Kingdom first. By placing things in proper order and under proper authority (God's), the rest falls into place, and doesn't hold us captive like it did before. Those things no longer rule us. As far as the going-to-hell-because-he-wasn't-going-to-church belief goes, I feel that Bryan has not been taught that our works are not what gets us into heaven. It's our faith in what GOD has done through Christ's sacrifice and the blood He shed for the forgiveness of our sins. It is God's love that does the work of salvation and transformation, not us.
Bryan's observation that not everybody that goes to church will go to heaven was very astute. There are plenty of people who attend church every week who feel they are good enough and that's all God requires or who believe that all they need is to do the good works and that's enough. The Bible tells us in Hosea 4:6 "my people are destroyed from lack of knowledge." Our ignorance is not an excuse. We need to seek after God and gain knowledge. His knowledge.
Another thing that Bryan brought up was that people often feel overwhelmed by work. They sometimes have to work more than one job to make ends meet. They either don't make the time to go to church, are too exhausted to GO to church, or they just don't see it as being that important. Taking rest on the Sabbath is important and sometimes unchurched people do better at resting than churched people. However, I am also reminded of stories in the Bible (Sodom and Gomorrah, Noah and the Ark) where God destroyed civilizations, whole people groups, even wiping out most of the life on earth, because people were going about their daily lives doing what they thought was best, without regard for God or the things of God. How much like this have we, as a nation (and even the world's population), become? Ignorance and lack of knowledge concerning God will be our undoing unless we take seriously Jesus' great commission and love people into the Kingdom. It's time for more of us to speak the truth in love.
Friday, February 27, 2009
Mike Hammer Interview
Mike Hammer, pastor of Celebration Community Church in Dillsburg, PA, was our guest last evening. The church he leads is relatively new (in its second year) and unique. He had to marry two churches and faiths together when his Assembly of God church was invited to take over a United Brethern in Christ congregation who had lost their pastor and was failing.
Mike and his wife, Connie, have an outreach ministry, in addition to their regular church services, called Bridges. They lead people of all faiths (or no faith) who are tired of hiding in their hurt, to dive deep beneath the surface of what they present to the world, to uncover WHY they do what they do. In unmasking the reasons for their hurts in a loving atmosphere, they are able to remove some of the fear these people have had, start the healing process, bring change, and promote growth. This program is something I would be very interested in attending. Although God has brought incredible healing, insight, and growth to me already, there are still three areas that I believe God has shown me exist and lay behind locked doors. Doors that he wants me to unlock in order to discover what's behind them, and why they are there. Bridges might help unlock those doors and take me to the next level.
Mike was a great guest. He didn't pretend to have all the answers. I believe I would be as comfortable in his church for the same reasons I love and am comfortable at Freedom Valley. Mike and Gerry are the only two pastors I have ever encountered who are willing to stand up in front of others and be open and vulnerable. Neither is afraid to admit openly that they have struggles, that they are not perfect, and that God is still at work in them. That kind of attitude and public vulnerability makes it so much easier for the rest of us to WANT a relationship with Christ and to know that there's hope for us, in the form of Jesus Christ, in spite of the sin and mistakes we've made in our lives. God can use our greatest shame(s) for His greatest Glory. That kind of love (God's love)is totally overwhelming to me. God's love and their examples make me want to be that kind of person: one who can inspire love and a desire for relationship with Christ in others.
Mike's challenges seem to be balancing his family life with ministry, developing more key leaders that he can trust and delegate some of his responsibilities to, and helping his congregants develop ideas and vision so that they are put in a position of ownership. Mike is already building relationships of trust and working on raising up leaders within the church. By developing these relationships of trust and leadership over time, it will allow him to delegate more of his responsibilities and aide him in keeping his family life and ministry better balanced. I'm not sure what he has done in an effort to promote ownership, but sometimes it's just a matter of making the church's needs known or allowing people to voice the needs they see and encouraging them to be the solution (Where did I learn that?). Biblical teaching about WHAT God wants, ways to see that happen, and encouragement to step out in faith are key to seeing those things come to fruition.
Thanks for coming, Mike.
Mike and his wife, Connie, have an outreach ministry, in addition to their regular church services, called Bridges. They lead people of all faiths (or no faith) who are tired of hiding in their hurt, to dive deep beneath the surface of what they present to the world, to uncover WHY they do what they do. In unmasking the reasons for their hurts in a loving atmosphere, they are able to remove some of the fear these people have had, start the healing process, bring change, and promote growth. This program is something I would be very interested in attending. Although God has brought incredible healing, insight, and growth to me already, there are still three areas that I believe God has shown me exist and lay behind locked doors. Doors that he wants me to unlock in order to discover what's behind them, and why they are there. Bridges might help unlock those doors and take me to the next level.
Mike was a great guest. He didn't pretend to have all the answers. I believe I would be as comfortable in his church for the same reasons I love and am comfortable at Freedom Valley. Mike and Gerry are the only two pastors I have ever encountered who are willing to stand up in front of others and be open and vulnerable. Neither is afraid to admit openly that they have struggles, that they are not perfect, and that God is still at work in them. That kind of attitude and public vulnerability makes it so much easier for the rest of us to WANT a relationship with Christ and to know that there's hope for us, in the form of Jesus Christ, in spite of the sin and mistakes we've made in our lives. God can use our greatest shame(s) for His greatest Glory. That kind of love (God's love)is totally overwhelming to me. God's love and their examples make me want to be that kind of person: one who can inspire love and a desire for relationship with Christ in others.
Mike's challenges seem to be balancing his family life with ministry, developing more key leaders that he can trust and delegate some of his responsibilities to, and helping his congregants develop ideas and vision so that they are put in a position of ownership. Mike is already building relationships of trust and working on raising up leaders within the church. By developing these relationships of trust and leadership over time, it will allow him to delegate more of his responsibilities and aide him in keeping his family life and ministry better balanced. I'm not sure what he has done in an effort to promote ownership, but sometimes it's just a matter of making the church's needs known or allowing people to voice the needs they see and encouraging them to be the solution (Where did I learn that?). Biblical teaching about WHAT God wants, ways to see that happen, and encouragement to step out in faith are key to seeing those things come to fruition.
Thanks for coming, Mike.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Sam Masteller Interview
Sam Masteller came to us from Freedom Life Christian Center in Christiana, PA, where he serves as the lead pastor. He is a likeable young guy, who wants to develop the people in his church so that they can share their faith and help the people in the surrounding area fulfill their destiny in Christ.
Sam has several ideas that I really liked. He believes that when you go to a community, that you are the gatekeeper for that community, and that you should pray that God does not give the people in that community rest until they know Jesus. This is something I want to start putting into practice myself. Something else that really struck a chord with me was that he believes the United States is a mission field. I see many lost, hurting people that need Christ (or someone to be Jesus to them), and I feel that some of our time in church is spent fruitlessly talking about what we should be doing, instead of going out and actually doing it. I would prefer to be out combing the back alleys for those who know they need something more and bringing them to church/Christ (or maybe we should bring church/Christ to them?), than inviting my friends to church, having them say they'll come, and then they don't show. They either don't recognize a need for Jesus in the first place; or they do recognize the need, but don't come because they're too busy. How many times should you invite someone? Once? Twice? Four hundred and thirty-three? Once or twice maybe, but more than that, unless the Spirit leads, will only serve to drive them away. Sam was correct in saying that our theology doesn't need to change, our methodology is what needs to change (at least mine does, or at least my thinking does, because I have not been very successful in this area. Yet. Maybe I'm not allowing enough time to grow relationships, but how long is long enough before you care enough about someone to invite them? Maybe I need to be praying more fervently as a gatekeeper?).
Something else that I liked that Sam did was to look at his church as a newcomer might and tried to design it so that it would be comfortable, inviting, fun, and a place where they not only want to return, but to also invite their friends. I thought the "cry room" for kids was a nice touch. Maybe adults could use private, sound-proof cry rooms as well, for those times when you just have to let it all out or if God calls you to trevail (and you just happen to be at church). One of Sam's goals with the church building is to be more welcoming to those who don't know Jesus. This is an excellent goal, but I believe that Sam also carries this through with the people of his church. I bet they are welcoming as well.
Church location could be a challenge, but I think that with their welcoming ways, people will go out of their way to get there.
Sam has several ideas that I really liked. He believes that when you go to a community, that you are the gatekeeper for that community, and that you should pray that God does not give the people in that community rest until they know Jesus. This is something I want to start putting into practice myself. Something else that really struck a chord with me was that he believes the United States is a mission field. I see many lost, hurting people that need Christ (or someone to be Jesus to them), and I feel that some of our time in church is spent fruitlessly talking about what we should be doing, instead of going out and actually doing it. I would prefer to be out combing the back alleys for those who know they need something more and bringing them to church/Christ (or maybe we should bring church/Christ to them?), than inviting my friends to church, having them say they'll come, and then they don't show. They either don't recognize a need for Jesus in the first place; or they do recognize the need, but don't come because they're too busy. How many times should you invite someone? Once? Twice? Four hundred and thirty-three? Once or twice maybe, but more than that, unless the Spirit leads, will only serve to drive them away. Sam was correct in saying that our theology doesn't need to change, our methodology is what needs to change (at least mine does, or at least my thinking does, because I have not been very successful in this area. Yet. Maybe I'm not allowing enough time to grow relationships, but how long is long enough before you care enough about someone to invite them? Maybe I need to be praying more fervently as a gatekeeper?).
Something else that I liked that Sam did was to look at his church as a newcomer might and tried to design it so that it would be comfortable, inviting, fun, and a place where they not only want to return, but to also invite their friends. I thought the "cry room" for kids was a nice touch. Maybe adults could use private, sound-proof cry rooms as well, for those times when you just have to let it all out or if God calls you to trevail (and you just happen to be at church). One of Sam's goals with the church building is to be more welcoming to those who don't know Jesus. This is an excellent goal, but I believe that Sam also carries this through with the people of his church. I bet they are welcoming as well.
Church location could be a challenge, but I think that with their welcoming ways, people will go out of their way to get there.
Monday, February 16, 2009
Wes Shortridge Interview
This week's guest was Wes Shortridge from Liberty Community Church in Bealeton, Virginia. His church is fairly new (in its sixth year) and, according to Wes, effective at reaching people who are down and out, addicted, and have life problems. His church tries to get people "saved to" a community (small home groups) where needs can be met. Wes sees the home group leaders as the pastors.
I'll be honest, Wes is not someone with whom I connected well during the interview process. From the interview, I was unable to tell if Wes has any compassion for those he leads or if he just wants them "saved to a community". That thought bothers me. Can you be a pastor and not have compassion? I'm hoping and praying that Wes has a huge heart of compassion and that it just did not convey well.
Having said that, and being bothered by the impression I received during the interview, I wanted to give Wes the benefit of the doubt and checked out LCC's website. I'm glad I did. Here are some things that encourage me: God called Wes to specifically serve the Bealeton area; even though he started off with just himself, his own family and two others, he stuck with it and the church has grown to over 200 members; Wes made a comment somewhere on the site that he has served the church more for free than he has for hire (you don't do this unless you truly care); he is reaching a lot of people that might not feel comfortable in a more traditional church; I also appreciate his organizational skills, the fact that he does 4 Sunday services (three in the morning and one in the evening), and that he goes to school. I know Wes is serving God and that my opinion of him doesn't mean a thing, but I think he should get a star on his chart for what he's doing. I'm glad he came.
I'll be honest, Wes is not someone with whom I connected well during the interview process. From the interview, I was unable to tell if Wes has any compassion for those he leads or if he just wants them "saved to a community". That thought bothers me. Can you be a pastor and not have compassion? I'm hoping and praying that Wes has a huge heart of compassion and that it just did not convey well.
Having said that, and being bothered by the impression I received during the interview, I wanted to give Wes the benefit of the doubt and checked out LCC's website. I'm glad I did. Here are some things that encourage me: God called Wes to specifically serve the Bealeton area; even though he started off with just himself, his own family and two others, he stuck with it and the church has grown to over 200 members; Wes made a comment somewhere on the site that he has served the church more for free than he has for hire (you don't do this unless you truly care); he is reaching a lot of people that might not feel comfortable in a more traditional church; I also appreciate his organizational skills, the fact that he does 4 Sunday services (three in the morning and one in the evening), and that he goes to school. I know Wes is serving God and that my opinion of him doesn't mean a thing, but I think he should get a star on his chart for what he's doing. I'm glad he came.
Friday, February 13, 2009
Church Rater Survey # 1
The Church
What Church did you visit?
Bethel Assembly Of God
What city or town is this Church located?
Littlestown, PA
What date and service did you attend?
Sunday, February 8, 2009, 7 PM
Evaluating
How would you rate this church?
Please provide ratings based on your own experience. Yes, I realize this is subjective and your '1′ might be someone else's '5′. That's ok. It's your rating and I really want your opinion.
Rate the following from 1 to 5. 1 is not effective, 5 is very effective!
Overall: ____5_______ Friendliness _____5________ Singing ____3________ Preaching ____5_____
First Impressions
Outside: Brick and siding
Was the building easy to find? Yes
Was it difficult to find parking? No
How about the interior or exterior signage- what would you do differently?
The sign made it easy to spot and also made it easy to see who was going to be preaching.
What did the appearance, style, or construction of the building communicate to you?
The brick on the lower half of the building told me that this is a solid church with a firm foundation. It is a church that does not plan on moving. It is there for the long haul.
Before the service:
Did anyone approach you and speak to you before the service got underway? Yes
If someone did speak to you, how did you feel about that? Great! Someone noticed me and cared about me! Tammy Crist gave us a personal tour of the Children's Ministry wing and of their Intercessory Prayer rooms, which was really nice.
Can you share their names?
A greeter first approached me and I don't remember their name. In the meeting before the service I met several people: Lois Whisler from Bethel Mennonite, Jake (no last name given) from a church in Harrisburg, Kevin and Cindy Orewiler from Hanover Foursquare, and the following from Bethel A/G: Jim and Meri-Lee Ruddy, Michelle Norris, Tammy Crist, Pastor Deb, Orrin and Kathy Orewiler, Chris Abrams, Russell Hess, Michelle Norris, and Janey White-something-or-other.
Did you know them before the visit? I went through school with Chris Abrams so I knew her. Her sister, Kathy Orewiler, was there, but I didn't recognize her when I first spoke with her, so I had to go back and reintroduce myself as someone she knew.
General observations:
As you observed the people "doing their church thing", what went through your mind?
These are people who love Jesus. They felt like family to me.
Were you able to understand why they do what they do?
I believe so. They love Jesus and were worshipping in ways that felt comfortable to them.
Do they seem sincere? Yes.
What do you think about the overall presentation of the service? (the liturgy, program or flow of the service)
There was worship music, introductions, more music, further introductions, collection for Johannes somewhere in there, prayer, the message, and then the altar call. It seemed like there were a lot of introductions, which I suppose were necessary due to what had happened before the service, but it seemed a little "choppy" to me because the introductions were seperated. It also seemed choppy to me because the music was also interrupted by introductions and the offering.
Bulletin and communications:
Is there anything in the church bulletin that you find confusing or offensive?
I did not see a bulltin at all.
If this were your "business", how would you improve the communication part of it- the bulletin especially?
From having been to Bethel before, I know that they do their announcements on the big screens up front. Pastor Ruddy normally also announces different things that are happening. I do like to have a printed bulletin, though, because my short-term memory isn't so hot, and it helps to have a bulletin that I can refer back to.
Were announcements clear, and interesting (did you want to sign up for anything)?
I didn't hear or see annoncements, but because of an invitation Michael and I received, we will probably go back to take part in their intercessory prayer.
Children's Ministry
Does this church appear kid-friendly? Yes. Very much so.
Did you bring any children with you to the service? No.
If so, ask them about their experience. What did they tell you? N/A
Music and Prayer
How would you describe the music? The worship music was okay, heartfelt for some, and it was easy to follow on the screens up front, but it lacked passion.
Did you enjoy any of it? Yes. The lyrics.
Did you feel like you connected with God during any part of it? Yes, the lyrics spoke more to me than the music itself, which all sounded pretty much the same.
How was it different from what you are used to?
The worship team was all one age group. I didn't notice anyone younger. The music was all the same style and didn't reflect the heartfelt passion I'm sure the musicians and members of the church must have for Christ. Different styles of music, I think, would have the capability to touch and reach a wider base of people.
Would you enjoy worshiping like that often? No.
What did you think of the prayers that were offered in the service?
I remember that Pastor Ruddy and one of the other pastors prayed, but I couldn't tell you about what. I do remember Johannes' prayers asking God to break addictions, chains, and curses better because he was very bold in the way he prayed. I think I also remembered them because when I pray, I often ask God to break chains, break down walls, barriers, hearts, doubt and unbelief, etc. I'm just not as loud in my boldness. At least not without a microphone.
As you listened to the prayers, what did you learn about how that church might think of people, or of God?
I listened to people around me pray quietly (and sometimes loudly when encouraged to pray loudly)in support of what was being prayed at the pulpit. From that experience, I would say that they are both respectful and supportive of people. I also feel as though they believe that God is well able to do anything.
The Speaker's Presentation
Did the Pastor or speaker seem likable?
Yes. Johannes draws his audience in by making himself one of us and also by telling stories in such a way that make the listener part of the story. You're there in the story, experiencing all the little details.
Is he/she a person you might enjoy having coffee with? Why?
Yes. I would like to learn more from Johannes: how to connect better with people in ways that will be meaningful to them, so that they can see their need for Jesus; how to use stories that will connect with people and that they will remember; how to take people inside those stories.
Did he/she seem engaged/sincere/condescending?
Johannes always seems engaged and sincere (Pastor Ruddy did as well. You can tell he is a real people person.). Johannes is not at all condescending. He came from "the bottom of the barrel", so to speak, and is not at all prideful because of what God has chosen to do through him.
Were you motivated to do or think anything differently because of the talk?
Because my own personal story deals with and centers around FORGIVENESS, this is a message that is huge to me. Not forgiving places people in bondage. Most people don't even recognize that. Forgiveness is the key that opens the spiritual celldoor so that the person can walk in freedom. As far as being motivated to do or think anything different...I don't know that I would necessarily think anything differently, but I am motivated to share more my message of God's love and forgiveness.
What could they have done to make it more enjoyable or useful?
I think Johannes did a super job.
Please erase any of the following descriptors that did not apply to the talk: Enjoyable, Angry, Thought-provoking, Relevant, Gloomy, Energetic, Credible, Slow, Sad, Upbeat, Humorous, Useful, Life-changing, funny,
It had elements of all these, except for boring.
The Message
What was the main idea of the message? FORGIVENESS
What action did the speaker want you to take or consider taking?
To seek forgiveness from God through Christ; also to forgive others.
Did the talk itself (the subject matter) hold your attention? Yes
Did any part of the talk stand out to you in a positive or negative way?
The way Johannes is open with his emotions and feelings was positive in that it allows people to connect with him. The message of forgiveness sinks in and finds its mark.
What is the one thing the speaker could do that would improve his/her presentation?
I understand that Johannes likes to come down on the same level with everyone, but because I am vertically challenged and can't see over heads, there were times when I couldn't see him very well. I still think it's good that he physically puts himself on the same level as everyone else because subconsciously he is doing the same thing. I just need to get into the sanctuary sooner to find a seat where I can see.
Do you think that you particularly will remember anything that was taught?
The message content and stories, yes, but more so the importance of other things: placing yourself on an equal plane with others; connecting with people and making a positive impact for Christ; planting seeds, through story-telling, that people can take home and think about; being yourself; sharing yourself from your heart; sharing that what God has done for you, He can do for them; be led by the Holy Spirit; and finally, when God leads you to do something, don't hold back. Dare to be bold.
Do you understand God or people better because of it?
I don't know that I understand God or people in a new way, but I feel as though I understand a little better how God wants me to relate to people.
Did it make you feel like you wanted to preach someday yourself ?
I feel we all preach in some way, shape, or form every day. Sometimes it's a good message, sometimes not so good. Could I stand up in front of a crowd and preach? Yes, I believe I could. If God calls me to do that, He will also equip me. I do know that as the bride of Christ, I want to produce an abundance of spiritual children for Him, and I most definitely want them to look like their Father.
What Church did you visit?
Bethel Assembly Of God
What city or town is this Church located?
Littlestown, PA
What date and service did you attend?
Sunday, February 8, 2009, 7 PM
Evaluating
How would you rate this church?
Please provide ratings based on your own experience. Yes, I realize this is subjective and your '1′ might be someone else's '5′. That's ok. It's your rating and I really want your opinion.
Rate the following from 1 to 5. 1 is not effective, 5 is very effective!
Overall: ____5_______ Friendliness _____5________ Singing ____3________ Preaching ____5_____
First Impressions
Outside: Brick and siding
Was the building easy to find? Yes
Was it difficult to find parking? No
How about the interior or exterior signage- what would you do differently?
The sign made it easy to spot and also made it easy to see who was going to be preaching.
What did the appearance, style, or construction of the building communicate to you?
The brick on the lower half of the building told me that this is a solid church with a firm foundation. It is a church that does not plan on moving. It is there for the long haul.
Before the service:
Did anyone approach you and speak to you before the service got underway? Yes
If someone did speak to you, how did you feel about that? Great! Someone noticed me and cared about me! Tammy Crist gave us a personal tour of the Children's Ministry wing and of their Intercessory Prayer rooms, which was really nice.
Can you share their names?
A greeter first approached me and I don't remember their name. In the meeting before the service I met several people: Lois Whisler from Bethel Mennonite, Jake (no last name given) from a church in Harrisburg, Kevin and Cindy Orewiler from Hanover Foursquare, and the following from Bethel A/G: Jim and Meri-Lee Ruddy, Michelle Norris, Tammy Crist, Pastor Deb, Orrin and Kathy Orewiler, Chris Abrams, Russell Hess, Michelle Norris, and Janey White-something-or-other.
Did you know them before the visit? I went through school with Chris Abrams so I knew her. Her sister, Kathy Orewiler, was there, but I didn't recognize her when I first spoke with her, so I had to go back and reintroduce myself as someone she knew.
General observations:
As you observed the people "doing their church thing", what went through your mind?
These are people who love Jesus. They felt like family to me.
Were you able to understand why they do what they do?
I believe so. They love Jesus and were worshipping in ways that felt comfortable to them.
Do they seem sincere? Yes.
What do you think about the overall presentation of the service? (the liturgy, program or flow of the service)
There was worship music, introductions, more music, further introductions, collection for Johannes somewhere in there, prayer, the message, and then the altar call. It seemed like there were a lot of introductions, which I suppose were necessary due to what had happened before the service, but it seemed a little "choppy" to me because the introductions were seperated. It also seemed choppy to me because the music was also interrupted by introductions and the offering.
Bulletin and communications:
Is there anything in the church bulletin that you find confusing or offensive?
I did not see a bulltin at all.
If this were your "business", how would you improve the communication part of it- the bulletin especially?
From having been to Bethel before, I know that they do their announcements on the big screens up front. Pastor Ruddy normally also announces different things that are happening. I do like to have a printed bulletin, though, because my short-term memory isn't so hot, and it helps to have a bulletin that I can refer back to.
Were announcements clear, and interesting (did you want to sign up for anything)?
I didn't hear or see annoncements, but because of an invitation Michael and I received, we will probably go back to take part in their intercessory prayer.
Children's Ministry
Does this church appear kid-friendly? Yes. Very much so.
Did you bring any children with you to the service? No.
If so, ask them about their experience. What did they tell you? N/A
Music and Prayer
How would you describe the music? The worship music was okay, heartfelt for some, and it was easy to follow on the screens up front, but it lacked passion.
Did you enjoy any of it? Yes. The lyrics.
Did you feel like you connected with God during any part of it? Yes, the lyrics spoke more to me than the music itself, which all sounded pretty much the same.
How was it different from what you are used to?
The worship team was all one age group. I didn't notice anyone younger. The music was all the same style and didn't reflect the heartfelt passion I'm sure the musicians and members of the church must have for Christ. Different styles of music, I think, would have the capability to touch and reach a wider base of people.
Would you enjoy worshiping like that often? No.
What did you think of the prayers that were offered in the service?
I remember that Pastor Ruddy and one of the other pastors prayed, but I couldn't tell you about what. I do remember Johannes' prayers asking God to break addictions, chains, and curses better because he was very bold in the way he prayed. I think I also remembered them because when I pray, I often ask God to break chains, break down walls, barriers, hearts, doubt and unbelief, etc. I'm just not as loud in my boldness. At least not without a microphone.
As you listened to the prayers, what did you learn about how that church might think of people, or of God?
I listened to people around me pray quietly (and sometimes loudly when encouraged to pray loudly)in support of what was being prayed at the pulpit. From that experience, I would say that they are both respectful and supportive of people. I also feel as though they believe that God is well able to do anything.
The Speaker's Presentation
Did the Pastor or speaker seem likable?
Yes. Johannes draws his audience in by making himself one of us and also by telling stories in such a way that make the listener part of the story. You're there in the story, experiencing all the little details.
Is he/she a person you might enjoy having coffee with? Why?
Yes. I would like to learn more from Johannes: how to connect better with people in ways that will be meaningful to them, so that they can see their need for Jesus; how to use stories that will connect with people and that they will remember; how to take people inside those stories.
Did he/she seem engaged/sincere/condescending?
Johannes always seems engaged and sincere (Pastor Ruddy did as well. You can tell he is a real people person.). Johannes is not at all condescending. He came from "the bottom of the barrel", so to speak, and is not at all prideful because of what God has chosen to do through him.
Were you motivated to do or think anything differently because of the talk?
Because my own personal story deals with and centers around FORGIVENESS, this is a message that is huge to me. Not forgiving places people in bondage. Most people don't even recognize that. Forgiveness is the key that opens the spiritual celldoor so that the person can walk in freedom. As far as being motivated to do or think anything different...I don't know that I would necessarily think anything differently, but I am motivated to share more my message of God's love and forgiveness.
What could they have done to make it more enjoyable or useful?
I think Johannes did a super job.
Please erase any of the following descriptors that did not apply to the talk: Enjoyable, Angry, Thought-provoking, Relevant, Gloomy, Energetic, Credible, Slow, Sad, Upbeat, Humorous, Useful, Life-changing, funny,
It had elements of all these, except for boring.
The Message
What was the main idea of the message? FORGIVENESS
What action did the speaker want you to take or consider taking?
To seek forgiveness from God through Christ; also to forgive others.
Did the talk itself (the subject matter) hold your attention? Yes
Did any part of the talk stand out to you in a positive or negative way?
The way Johannes is open with his emotions and feelings was positive in that it allows people to connect with him. The message of forgiveness sinks in and finds its mark.
What is the one thing the speaker could do that would improve his/her presentation?
I understand that Johannes likes to come down on the same level with everyone, but because I am vertically challenged and can't see over heads, there were times when I couldn't see him very well. I still think it's good that he physically puts himself on the same level as everyone else because subconsciously he is doing the same thing. I just need to get into the sanctuary sooner to find a seat where I can see.
Do you think that you particularly will remember anything that was taught?
The message content and stories, yes, but more so the importance of other things: placing yourself on an equal plane with others; connecting with people and making a positive impact for Christ; planting seeds, through story-telling, that people can take home and think about; being yourself; sharing yourself from your heart; sharing that what God has done for you, He can do for them; be led by the Holy Spirit; and finally, when God leads you to do something, don't hold back. Dare to be bold.
Do you understand God or people better because of it?
I don't know that I understand God or people in a new way, but I feel as though I understand a little better how God wants me to relate to people.
Did it make you feel like you wanted to preach someday yourself ?
I feel we all preach in some way, shape, or form every day. Sometimes it's a good message, sometimes not so good. Could I stand up in front of a crowd and preach? Yes, I believe I could. If God calls me to do that, He will also equip me. I do know that as the bride of Christ, I want to produce an abundance of spiritual children for Him, and I most definitely want them to look like their Father.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Jonatan and Anna Kvist Interview
Jonatan and Anna Kvist, missionary evangelists from Mission SOS in Stockholm, were our most recent guests. Their passion and focus is going on the evangelistic festivals that Mission SOS has all over the world to bring the Gospel to unreached people groups.
This young couple are incredibly likeable. It's very easy to relate to them. They are friendly, kind, make easy connections, and have several qualities and interests that reflect those of my own children. They both have huge hearts for others to come to know Christ. It was obvious that Anna, in particular, has a tremendous compassion for those who believe they have no hope. I was also excited to learn that they enjoy taking "church" outside of the church. This has been something that God has been putting in my heart since sometime right around Jocelyn's welcome home party (and my own birthday).
Besides just enjoying them, I learned a lot from Anna and Jonatan. They had a lot of great tips for creative outreach. It was also helpful to hear how they research the people, culture, history, and the countries to which they travel so that they can relate better, form a connection with the people groups they share the gospel with, and tailor their efforts to that particular audience. The Mission SOS team has a vision, a purpose, a plan, and are guided well by the Holy Spirit.
A few valuable lessons stood out: 1)Give people your heart; 2)Fear God more than you fear the people to whom you are ministering; and 3)Make the way to Jesus as short as possible.
Finally, a big challenge that I see for the Mission SOS team is not in reaching the unsaved, but in keeping their families connected and close when there is so much travel. From what I have observed, the families do try to travel together as much as possible, for short periods of time, and there always seems to be accountability, but even so, there is a certain amount of stress that goes with being away from home, working so hard (even if it is out of your love and passion for God), and trying to meet the needs of your family. Do they provide enough time for families to stay connected and "rest" outside of their calling? In what ways do they provide emotional support and ways for families to connect when one spouse travels and the other has to stay at home, especially with such a busy schedule? In what ways do they support the spouse and/or children that stay at home? Do families ever get sent to "hotspots" together or do they save those places for the single men only?
Thank you for the opportunity to meet and connect with Jonatan and Anna and to learn and grow.
This young couple are incredibly likeable. It's very easy to relate to them. They are friendly, kind, make easy connections, and have several qualities and interests that reflect those of my own children. They both have huge hearts for others to come to know Christ. It was obvious that Anna, in particular, has a tremendous compassion for those who believe they have no hope. I was also excited to learn that they enjoy taking "church" outside of the church. This has been something that God has been putting in my heart since sometime right around Jocelyn's welcome home party (and my own birthday).
Besides just enjoying them, I learned a lot from Anna and Jonatan. They had a lot of great tips for creative outreach. It was also helpful to hear how they research the people, culture, history, and the countries to which they travel so that they can relate better, form a connection with the people groups they share the gospel with, and tailor their efforts to that particular audience. The Mission SOS team has a vision, a purpose, a plan, and are guided well by the Holy Spirit.
A few valuable lessons stood out: 1)Give people your heart; 2)Fear God more than you fear the people to whom you are ministering; and 3)Make the way to Jesus as short as possible.
Finally, a big challenge that I see for the Mission SOS team is not in reaching the unsaved, but in keeping their families connected and close when there is so much travel. From what I have observed, the families do try to travel together as much as possible, for short periods of time, and there always seems to be accountability, but even so, there is a certain amount of stress that goes with being away from home, working so hard (even if it is out of your love and passion for God), and trying to meet the needs of your family. Do they provide enough time for families to stay connected and "rest" outside of their calling? In what ways do they provide emotional support and ways for families to connect when one spouse travels and the other has to stay at home, especially with such a busy schedule? In what ways do they support the spouse and/or children that stay at home? Do families ever get sent to "hotspots" together or do they save those places for the single men only?
Thank you for the opportunity to meet and connect with Jonatan and Anna and to learn and grow.
Monday, February 2, 2009
New Believer Interview # 1
My first new believer interview was with Chad, who was baptized January 17, 2009. Some answers are paraphrased.
Questions:
1)Tell me about your journey to faith in Christ?
Chad always went to church when he was younger, but got away from it. He always had a belief in God, but wondered, while he was using (drugs), why he had that lifestyle.
He had been in rehab, ran out of funding, and ended up coming to Freedom House.
2)What helped you the most to step over the line and make the commitment?
Chad said that he knew he needed a change in life. Rehab and detox didn't work. Coming to Freedom House and making a commitment for Christ seem to be working (he's only been there a short while). He wanted to make the change for himself, but he also wanted to make the change for his daughter, who is due March 9th.
3)What has been the best part of becoming a Christ follower for you?
Chad says that the best part has been that it has given him a new outlook on life. "You don't know if you'll be here tomorrow. You live your life one day at a time. Don't dwell on the past."
4) What has been the most challenging part of following Christ?
"Getting my belief back that God still loves me. Building my faith back."
5)What do you think is helping you grow the most in your faith?
Chad said that the guys at Freedom House have been the most helpful to him in his faith. They help him, pray for him, answer his questions, and encourage him to pray.
6)What advice do you have for me in helping others like you to grow in their faith?
"Believe and pray." Chad believes that you have to have support. He thinks that it would be helpful to offer a place, either a house or homes, where people can learn and build their faith. He feels that one-on-one or small groups are especially good for users because they have a tendency to want to hide themselves from public view. Chad believes encouragement is also vital in helping others grow in their faith.
I enjoyed interviewing Chad. I am reminded that many of us, who were raised in church and knew OF God, but did not know that He desires a loving and tender relationship with us, tend to go astray. We often have to try every thing we can think of first, and fail miserably at it, before we're willing to give up control and try the one thing that is best for us: belief in the Lord Jesus Christ. The Relationship that changes everything.
I guess I never saw the importance before of small groups or home churches. They are perhaps more beneficial to some than a larger church setting in that they foster closer relationship among its members, fewer places to "hide" spiritually, much needed support and encouragement, and time for discussion and prayer of personal issues that you wouldn't normally have time for in a church with many members. Small groups give another chance to "put skin on Jesus" as you minister to one another on a more one-to-one basis. I guess I'll be joining (or starting?) a small group. It is my great desire to be one who "puts skin on Jesus" for others who either don't know Him or only know OF Him. I want to make Jesus REAL for people.
Questions:
1)Tell me about your journey to faith in Christ?
Chad always went to church when he was younger, but got away from it. He always had a belief in God, but wondered, while he was using (drugs), why he had that lifestyle.
He had been in rehab, ran out of funding, and ended up coming to Freedom House.
2)What helped you the most to step over the line and make the commitment?
Chad said that he knew he needed a change in life. Rehab and detox didn't work. Coming to Freedom House and making a commitment for Christ seem to be working (he's only been there a short while). He wanted to make the change for himself, but he also wanted to make the change for his daughter, who is due March 9th.
3)What has been the best part of becoming a Christ follower for you?
Chad says that the best part has been that it has given him a new outlook on life. "You don't know if you'll be here tomorrow. You live your life one day at a time. Don't dwell on the past."
4) What has been the most challenging part of following Christ?
"Getting my belief back that God still loves me. Building my faith back."
5)What do you think is helping you grow the most in your faith?
Chad said that the guys at Freedom House have been the most helpful to him in his faith. They help him, pray for him, answer his questions, and encourage him to pray.
6)What advice do you have for me in helping others like you to grow in their faith?
"Believe and pray." Chad believes that you have to have support. He thinks that it would be helpful to offer a place, either a house or homes, where people can learn and build their faith. He feels that one-on-one or small groups are especially good for users because they have a tendency to want to hide themselves from public view. Chad believes encouragement is also vital in helping others grow in their faith.
I enjoyed interviewing Chad. I am reminded that many of us, who were raised in church and knew OF God, but did not know that He desires a loving and tender relationship with us, tend to go astray. We often have to try every thing we can think of first, and fail miserably at it, before we're willing to give up control and try the one thing that is best for us: belief in the Lord Jesus Christ. The Relationship that changes everything.
I guess I never saw the importance before of small groups or home churches. They are perhaps more beneficial to some than a larger church setting in that they foster closer relationship among its members, fewer places to "hide" spiritually, much needed support and encouragement, and time for discussion and prayer of personal issues that you wouldn't normally have time for in a church with many members. Small groups give another chance to "put skin on Jesus" as you minister to one another on a more one-to-one basis. I guess I'll be joining (or starting?) a small group. It is my great desire to be one who "puts skin on Jesus" for others who either don't know Him or only know OF Him. I want to make Jesus REAL for people.
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